Should I Homeschool My Kids? A Teacher-Turned-Mum’s Perspective

As an ex-teacher who’s worked across more than six schools, I’ve seen the inside of the education system—and let me tell you, there’s a lot that doesn’t make sense. Kids are spending hours sitting still, memorizing things they’ll never use, just to tick boxes in a crowded curriculum.

There are so many studies out there showing that young children only need around two hours of focused learning a day. Yet we’re cramming their brains for six hours straight, five days a week. No wonder they’re burnt out and uninspired.

I used to believe in the system. Now? I believe in my kids. Here are six big reasons why homeschooling might be the best decision you ever make.

1. Kids Are Learning Too Many Useless Things

Let’s be honest—how many of us actually use Pythagoras' theorem or remember the different types of clouds? Schools are packed with content that doesn't prepare kids for the real world. Homeschooling lets you focus on meaningful, practical learning—like how to manage money, grow a garden, or build a business.

2. Kids Learn Best in Short Bursts

Studies show young children learn best with short, focused periods—about two hours per day is plenty. Homeschooling allows for flexible learning that actually respects your child’s attention span, instead of forcing them to sit still for hours on end.

3. Emotional and Social Skills Should Come First

Before they master math or spelling, kids need emotional regulation, self-awareness, and strong social skills. Homeschooling gives you the time and space to build that solid foundation. And let’s face it: what they really need to thrive in life isn’t just academic—it’s emotional intelligence.

4. Boys Need More Movement (and They’re Not Getting It)

Science tells us that boys generally need more physical activity than girls—but the traditional classroom doesn’t cater to that. Homeschooling allows for movement breaks, outdoor learning, and active lessons that work with your child’s needs, not against them.

5. Teachers Are Overworked (and Under Supported)

Teachers are doing their best, but with oversized classes and constant curriculum changes, they just can’t give every student the attention they deserve. I’ve been there. Homeschooling lets your child get the one-on-one support that’s impossible to find in a classroom.

6. Teacher Shortages Are Affecting Quality

With more teachers leaving the profession and fewer entering it, the quality of teaching is struggling. Many schools are stretched so thin they’re barely covering the basics. When you homeschool, you’re in control of the learning environment—and the quality of education.

But What About High School and Socializing?

Great question. Personally, I believe once a student reaches high school, they can start navigating the traditional system with more confidence. Until then, clubs, sports, community events, and group classes offer plenty of ways for homeschooled kids to build friendships and social skills.

Final Thoughts

Homeschooling isn’t about being a perfect parent—it’s about being present. You don’t need a teaching degree to be your child’s best teacher. You already know their personality, their rhythm, and what lights them up. That matters more than any textbook.

As a mum, your intuition is powerful. If something about the school system isn’t sitting right with you, trust that feeling. You have the ability to teach your kids not just how to read or write, but how to live a full, kind, and curious life.

Because at the end of the day, no one is more qualified to guide your child than you.

You've got this, mama 💛

Love Cass